How Shame Manifests in LGBTQ+ Individuals
How Shame Manifests in LGBTQ+ Individuals: Shame is a powerful and deeply ingrained emotion that can profoundly affect an individual’s sense of self-worth, identity, and relationships.
Thomas is a LGBTQIA2S+, BIPOC, sex positive, kink, polyamory, and consensual non-monogamy sensitive and safe therapist.
All appointments are currently being scheduled via teletherapy.
Thomas Rea is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in sex and relationship therapy. He received his Masters in Social Work from the University of Southern California and holds certifications as a sex therapist and a sex and couples therapist.
Thomas has over 15 years of experience providing individual and relationship psychotherapy and clinical case management services to adolescents and adults in private practice, mental health centers and the Montgomery County Maryland Government.
He is licensed to practice in the District of Columbia (LICSW), Maryland (LCSW-C) and Virginia (LCSW).
Thomas is also a speaker and writer.
Mood disorders (depression, anxiety, stress,
low motivation)
LGBTQ Affirmative Therapy
Substance use and addictions
Low self-esteem
Shame
Trauma
Monogamy, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory
Kink and BDSM
Intimacy issues
Sex and aging
Male sexual dysfunction
Problematic sexual behaviors/erotic conflicts
Thomas is a Maryland Board Approved LCSW-C supervisor for LGSW’s pursuing clinical licensure. He is also an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Supervisor-In-Training for clinicians interested in obtaining a certification in sex therapy.
In addition to supervision, Thomas provides consultation services to professionals who have challenging cases for specialized feedback and guidance.
His goal is to help psychotherapists increase their self-confidence, competence, and theoretical knowledge in a safe and non-judgmental space.
Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy where you can address concerns about sexual function, trauma, sexual feelings and intimacy — either in individual therapy or in joint therapy with your partner. Sex therapy can be effective for adults of any age, sex or sexual orientation.
In addition to seeking sex therapy, clients are encouraged to have a medical evaluation and treatment. Medical professions may also be consulted for continuity of care.
Obtaining AASECT certification requires therapists to complete a rigorous two years of didactic and practicum training to develop the theoretical knowledge and specialized clinical skills needed to help clients address their sexual concerns.
To maintain AASECT certification, Certified Sex Therapists also must actively participate in continuing education programs to refine their skills and keep current with the latest advances in the field of human sexuality.
Payment is due at the time of service. Health insurance is not accepted.
If your health insurance policy provides out-of-network coverage, you may file a claim for reimbursement directly with your provider.
Accepted Credit Cards:
Healthcare Savings Account (HSA) cards
Flexible Spending Account (FSA) cards
Yes! Telehealth appointments are available through SimplePractice or Zoom.
How Shame Manifests in LGBTQ+ Individuals: Shame is a powerful and deeply ingrained emotion that can profoundly affect an individual’s sense of self-worth, identity, and relationships.
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