Thomas Rea is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, certified sex therapist, speaker and writer. He specializes in individual and relationship psychotherapy, while offering clinical case management services in private practice, mental health centers and Montgomery County Government.

The Myth of Spontaneous Desire

Couples

Desire is often portrayed as a spontaneous, fiery force. An irresistible spark that ignites out of nowhere. From romantic comedies to advertisements, we are inundated with the idea that true passion should emerge naturally, effortlessly, and without provocation. But this portrayal, while alluring, can set up unrealistic expectations and create significant challenges in relationships. The…